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Marrying the family: Your in-laws’ drinking problems could lead to alcohol issues of your own

A study of more than 300,000 couples in Sweden finds marriage to a spouse exposed to parental alcohol misuse increases a person’s likelihood of developing a drinking problem.
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Marriage to a spouse who was exposed to parental alcohol misuse increases a person’s likelihood of developing a drinking problem, even if the spouse does not have a drinking problem themselves, according to a new study based on data from more than 300,000 couples in Sweden.

“Our goal here was to examine whether a spouse’s genetic makeup influences risk for AUD [alcohol use disorder],” said lead author Jessica Salvatore, Ph.D., an assistant professor of psychology at Virginia Commonwealth University. “In a somewhat surprising twist, we found that it wasn’t the spouse’s genetic makeup that influenced AUD risk. Rather, it was whether the spouse was raised by an AUD-affected parent.”

The study, “Disentangling social genetic from rearing environmental effects for alcohol use disorder using Swedish national data,” will be published in a forthcoming issue of the journal Psychological Science.

The researchers analyzed marital information on over 300,000 couples in Swedish national population registries, finding that marriage to a spouse with a predisposition toward alcohol use disorder increased risk for developing AUD; that increased risk was not explained by socioeconomic status, the spouse’s AUD status, nor contact with the spouse’s parents; and that this increased risk reflected the psychological consequences of the spouse having grown up with an AUD-affected parent rather than genetics.

“Growing up with an AUD-affected parent might teach people to act in ways that reinforce a spouse’s drinking problem,” said Salvatore, a professor in the Department of Psychology in the College of Humanities and Sciences. “For example, taking care of a spouse when they have a hangover.”

The study’s findings are also important because they underscore the pernicious and long-lasting impact of growing up with a parent with alcohol use disorder, extending even to the spouses of their adult children.

“[It demonstrates] the long reach that parental alcohol problems have on the next generation,” Salvatore said. “It’s not just the offspring of affected parents who are at risk, it’s the people those offspring end up marrying, too.”

The findings are consistent with evidence from other research labs, she said, which suggests that those who grow up with a parent with an alcohol use disorder may be at particularly high risk of using alcohol as a “tool” to improve their marital interactions.

“These kinds of processes may inadvertently lead a spouse down the path of alcohol misuse,” she said. “To be clear, my guess is that these processes are out of people’s conscious control. No one wants to ‘give’ their spouse an alcohol problem.”

The study’s findings are an important contribution to a burgeoning area of research on social genetic effects, or the effects of a social partner’s genetic makeup, Salvatore said. Conclusions from previous studies of social genetic effects were limited by the fact that people’s genotypes were correlated with their rearing environments. In other words, in prior studies it was difficult to say whether effects were attributable to the partner’s genes versus how they were raised because their parents provided both their genes and their home lives.

“What we were able to do in our study was tease apart the effects of the social partner (spouse’s) genes and the rearing environment,” she said. “And when we did that, what we found surprised us: It’s something about the spouse being raised by a parent with a drinking problem, rather than the spouse’s genetic makeup, that influences risk for developing an alcohol problem.”

The study’s findings could prove valuable when it comes to treating couples struggling with alcohol. The findings reinforce the idea that interventions for substance-use disorders should be administered at the level of a couple or the family (for those who have a partner) rather than at the individual level, Salvatore said.

“This really underscores the importance of supporting families where alcohol misuse is a problem,” she said.

This study is part of Salvatore’s larger body of research that seeks to understand “how the people we love shape the way we drink.”

“In the best-case scenario, spouses can be one of our first defenses against poor health — they bug us to schedule our annual exams, and they’re among the first to notice if we’re feeling blue or tipping too many drinks back. But spouses can also be a liability for poor health,” she said. “The results from this study underscore how a spouse’s experiences in his/her family of origin can be a risk factor for the development of alcohol problems.

“Now, this isn’t the spouse’s fault — we don’t get to choose our parents, after all,” she said. “But knowing that this is a risk factor is the first step of being able to limit its negative impact.”

In addition to Salvatore, who is also affiliated with the Virginia Institute for Psychiatric and Behavioral Genetics at VCU, the study was conducted by Sara Larsson Lönn, Ph.D., Jan Sundquist, M.D., and Kristina Sundquist, M.D., of the Center for Primary Health Care Research at Lund University in Sweden; and Kenneth S. Kendler, M.D., director, professor and eminent scholar at the Virginia Institute for Psychiatric and Behavioral Genetics at VCU.

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